The other night, my lover and I spent about an hour bringing him to the brink of orgasm and then stopping. Starting over, and stopping. After he eventually came, he complained of severely sore balls ... the pain going down into his legs. And I remembered a similar situation with my last lover, when we'd spent a couple of hours playing.

My question is this: is this common? Is it because of the length of the session? I don't think it's from my attention to them ... I'm a very gentle licker and sucker.

 

can't say that's ever happened to me

and it's been more than just this guy?

what are you doing to him, flicking him or something?

 

I swear, b ... I'll slap an ass, pinch some nipples, scrape a cock with my teeth but I'm gentle as a lamb with those precious balls.

 

Lol ok good

seriously though, I don't know what to tell ya, if it was one guy I would say he see a doctor, maybe they're just not used to be playing for that long?

 

Perhaps that's the problem.

 

I believe this is what the Americans call 'Blue-Balls' in the UK I've always known them as 'Lover's Nuts'
It's something that happens sometimes if a man is stimulated over a long period of time.
Some men can even get it if they just refrain from sex for a long time.

Yes it is common, I remember suffering with this on several occasions when I was a teenager, although it isn't something that has happened in more recent years.

And it's pretty bloody painful.....you girls don't know the agonies we go through......:-D

 

Yes, I hate blueballs. It sucks, and it's much more than the balls.

 

It's never happened to me but it's probably like chunky said. If a man stimulates for a long time he gets blue balls.

 

I've never had a very extreme case, but to me this sounds a bit different than plain ol' blueballs... For myself anyway, they ache if I get extremely turned on but can't or decide not to do anything about it. If I start to masturbate to ease them, they'll eventually ease down, but even in my worst case, they never hurt at all AFTER I came.

Piggit, can you ask him if they only started to hurt after? Of if they just built up all through it and lasted on after? If the latter, it's probably just a really, really bad case of blue-balls. If the former... well, I don't know.

 

OK yep I get it sometimes - normally once I have spent a whole day on XNXX rather than get some work done.

Piggit the advice will be, let the guy blow his load a bit more often - it will stop the horrible aching. I am sure you can get him hard again once he's had a bit of rest time !

 

Piggit, that is a normal thing as many others have attested. Baller is too young tohave ever had the problem most likely. It may also have to do with nerve fatigue. The leg nerves pass very near the sexually stimulated nerves and that may also be a contributing factor.

 

I had something similar happen to me, but it wasn't blue balls. It was testicular torsion.. Testicular torsion is when the testicle gets wrapped around the blood vessel supplying it with blood and it slowly starts to die. EXTREMELY painful..feels like a midget kicking you in the nuts, 24/7. Testicular torsion is an EXTREMELY serious matter. If it goes untreated for several days, the testicle can completely die. I myself was several hours away from that :/ I only wish that I had KNEW what the hell it was when it first happened..Never even heard of testicular torsion until that happened. I think it should be though in health class, but whatever

 

I will ask him. Tho he's not one to keep quiet about how things are feeling ... I believe he would have asked to cum if it was bothersome DURING our session.

 

Agreed, but the ache creeps up on you - believe me you are doing him a service to get him to blow his load a bit quicker!

 

That happened to me once. Very similar situation.

 

Piggit, there's no doubt in my mind that you're not only capable of causing this condition in your man, but of outright fucking him to death.

 

Agreed - make his cock sore from over use, rather than his balls ache with pent up spunk

 

Yeah i've had "blue balls" before. It sucks! Worse than a "baw slap" sometimes.

That is all.

 

It is called"blue balls" if a man is stimulated for a long time it hurts after i don't know why though

 

I have suffered from pain as a result of epidimitis (may not be correct spelling) and it feels much as Pigget discribed. This is a blockage in the seminal duct and fuck me, it hurts.

If the pain continues, see a doctor.

Sexual arousal creates tension in the prostate. Generally this creates the very pleasant sensation of getting horny. When extended for long periods this will bring fatigue. After orgasm, blood may pool in the area and the 'meat' will be tender. The balls may feel like they're banging around at knee level. If this pain or discomfort continues for more than 48 hours, see a doctor.

So endith the lesson.

There is some dis-agreement among health professionals as to the existance of Blue Balls other than as a vehicle for men to pressure ladies into getting them off.

Pigget, if your man needs a body double.....